Monday, June 23, 2008
Monday, January 28, 2008
The end
The orphanage, as you might imagine, was a very moving experience. We planned a special day for the kids which was basically all games. One thing that surprised me was that "orphanage," at least at the one we visited, had a slight misnomer. Most of these kids had living parents or grandparents; the problem was they were unable to feed their children and as a result the kids weren't going to school. The orphanage we visited was more of a place that provided them nsima for lunch and served as a place to play with other kids.
A volunteer in the first WC session brought with her a huge donation from her church at home and donated enough money to the orphanage to feed all the children lunch every day for six months. There were probably 100 kids at the orphanage, which showed how far her gift was going. The orphanage, called Yossa, consisted of one concrete room with a few desks. Normally it is run by local volunteers. There also appeared to be a lot of construction going on around the main building, including a library. I think they had a previous donation to fund the building.
Unfortunately, the day we went to the orphanage was the day I was feeling under the weather. Luckily I didn't get as sick as some people throughout the trip. I tried to play with the kids but I also didn't want to get them sick. Some kids were extremely young but oh so extremely adorable. One of my favorite pictures from the trip is this one: these are two brothers wearing identical shirts.
I did finally feel well enough to play with the kids, which was so much fun. I think they really enjoyed having us there. I'm just glad we could be there to give them something different. The orphanage was really our last experience with the kids. At the end all the volunteers were so sad to leave, some in tears. A group of girls sang us what seemed to be a hymn about saying goodbye, which was absolutely beautiful and heartbreaking. There are definitely some memorable faces throughout the whole trip that I will never forget.
Some from the group went on a motor boat ride to a nearby island, where we got to snorkel! It was so beautiful. I got to see amazing African cichlids up close and personal. I also got to witness a beautiful sunset that evening, the last in Africa. Later that night, we were giving superlatives by the program coordinators. I was the one "whose ipod was most likely to be stolen" because the PC's liked my music and would play it via the tape deck in the Land Rovers on our long drives to the schools. WC also gave each of us an engraved wooden nsima spoon with our name on it as a final gift.
The "resort" where we stayed at a second time, Cool Runnings, was recently host to Ewan McGregor filming for a TV series "Long Way Round," where he and a friend travel by motorbike from Scotland to South Africa. Their whole crew and Ewan's wife stayed at Cool Runnings, which was exciting. I've since looked to see if the show has aired, but I don't think it has made its way to the U.S.
In the morning everyone got up early to watch our last African sunrise. Most of us kept our sleeping bags on and toted them out to the lawn in front of the beach to watch. That morning was bittersweet because the first few volunteers left to go home.
On the way back from the lake to the WC house we stopped at an amazing wood market. For all the deforestation education we brought to Malawi, we sure did cut down a lot of trees via the amount of wood items we bought. Most were made of mahogany and hand carved. I brought back a plate, jewelry box, necklaces, a hippo figurine, and salad tongs just to name a few things. It was really fun to bargain with some of the vendors, and it served dual-purpose too to get rid of some of the things we didn't want to take home with us. Speaking of taking things home, I brought back a good 10 bottles of my favorite Nali hot sauce.
Here is a picture of the whole group together in front of the lake at night:
The last day at the house was full of packing and also uploading pictures onto the house computers to trade with everyone. Some people left later that day. I left the next morning.
I remember traveling home as being extremely emotional. Not only was it hard to leave Malawi, but it was especially hard to leave Africa. I basically broke down in the Johannesburg airport, for a few reasons. I knew I would miss the World Camp lifestyle, the volunteers, the volunteering, the kids, etc. Waiting at the gate for my 18 hour flight home, I was surrounded by tourists. Americans. It was such a culture shock to be exposed to these people again, and for some reason it made me incredibly sad to come back into the real world of American ideals and lifestyles. And to top it off, the movie screen in front of my seat didn't work on the flight either. But it made for a good time to reflect on the trip and organize my hundreds of pictures.
Of course I loved being home again, to see my parents and Kipper and friends. The first home cooked meal I wanted? Spaghetti. And some sushi on the side. But a part of me missed the constant companionship and activity back in Malawi. And still misses it. I did since go to the first World Camp reunion, which was a fun overnight camp-out near Boone, N.C. I got to meet more of the volunteers from the first session and others who went to Honduras and India. It is going to be an annual event from here on out. I've also tried to keep in touch with many of the volunteers. Even though some go to UNC with me, it's unfortunate because I rarely see them. Everyone is always so busy!
I feel that in my lifetime something somehow will bring me back to Africa. But I realized that instead of exploring more places, I want to go back to Malawi more than anywhere. They are still in desperate need of any aid they can obtain. It was in the news recently that Malawi will be unable to reach the UN's Millenium Development Goals by 2015.
I'm looking into how I can go back.
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Namwili/Chisomo
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Mlale
Our questions during the negotiating sex portion of the class were not as harsh as last time. The teachers also get to do anonymous questions too, and the teacher meeter shared one with us that said they had heard AIDS stood for
American
Invention
Discouraging
Sex.
There were more teachers here than was usual, about 18.
Something different also came up about vitamin K. Some of the boys think that semen contains vitamin K and that girls need it for nourishment...another fatal cultural practice in action. Apparently labia stretching is common here too, I'll leave that description out.
We planted cassias again today, and it went well. My partner at this school was Bridget, so we decided to combine our names and name the tree Midget. Our kids were extremely enthusiastic and a lot participated, we really enjoyed them. They also worked really hard on their presentation and even came into school before we got there to practice it. It was nice to be able to communicate with them somewhat in English too, it made it more fun. Their team name was Nyika, which is a park ?...better than the Hungry Lions name which comes up at every school.
Since tomorrow is our last camp and we have a few days in between that and going back to the lake, we voted on visiting a refugee camp and coming up with a curriculum to serve them. We did lots of planning for this and met in committees but were informed yesterday that it wasn't going to happen...they wanted too much money from us believe it or not. So instead we are going to visit kids in the city for a day and visit an orphanage. Tomorrow is our last homestay and our last camp. I can't believe that we are so close to the end.
Sunday, July 22, 2007
Hike
Saturday, July 21, 2007
Mtsiliza
Doing parachute games was an ordeal. It was extremely windy and dust got everywhere. Literally to the point where it was in our teeth. Glad I had sunglasses on to somewhat shield my eyes, but I don’t think I’ve ever been dirtier because my face looked like I’d tanned three shades. Our class (ages 11-14) was really smart, much more knowledgable than the homestay school. They saved us a lot of explaining, even at points where we expected them not to know things. Because they are situated in central
The second day was a million times worse. There were a lot more rugrats. And not only were there a lot more of them, but they were brats. Evil. In one class a kid threw a lit match through the window. The team leader got stones thrown at him and got his lunch torn out of his hand. All the kids were climbing in the trailers and on the cars the whole time. Usually it’s safe to leave our things in the classroom but our translators advised us not to. The worst part was during negotiating sex, where we try to create an intimate environment, we couldn’t even hear ourselves talk. Now I understand why some of the headmasters go around with giant sticks to keep kids away. It was just utter chaos. We skipped morning and afternoon games because it would have been too hectic.
Perhaps another one of the saddest moments I’ve experienced here was during the anonymous question part of negotiating sex. One of the questions we got was “what should I do if my father is raping me?” Another was “what should I do if my parents invite a man with HIV into my house to rape me?” It’s really hard to answer a question like that, partly because of the shock but also because there is only so much we can say. We can recommend that they seek help, either from the police or a trusted friend. But these poor girls are so shy, who knows if anything is really going to change for them. Apparently this man who goes around raping girls is known as the “feci.” It is a cultural practice for him to rape girls once they’ve started menstruating in order to “cleanse” them. And they know this man is HIV positive! It’s so ridiculous and upsetting. I emphasized to these girls that in some instances they can be more knowledgeable than their parents, because the parents are the ones encouraging this to happen. It was so odd being in this city school where you’d think kids would be better off because there are more people around and more law enforcement, but it’s just the opposite. On a lighter note, one of our questions was “if a girl hasn’t gotten her period yet, can a boy get her pregnant if he is menstruating?” That one was fun to explain.
On our third day it was a lot quieter because: there were other white people at the school! It was weird because this was the first time we’d run into another group doing volunteer work. They were a missionary group who was taking people to clinics to get tested. For the first time, we added a tree-planting section to our curriculum. I felt like the environmental curriculum was really effective at this school, because the kids recognized deforestation was happening but that people didn’t do anything about it. Usually when we ask them to define deforestation someone says “cutting down trees carelessly,” but these kids were so smart that we didn’t even hear that come up.
On our way from the class to our planting site, I heard some yelling behind me. I turned around and thought I saw big particles of dust, but it turned out to be bees. Our translator yelled “get down Mindy!!” so I pulled a duck and cover. It was more exciting than scary or anything, I think the whole thing lasted 10 seconds. Once at our planting site, we explained what conditions were needed for a tree to grow and how they would pick good planting sites in the future. All of the kids are responsible for watering the tree everyday and we made a calendar which we leave with the teachers. We planted cassia trees. I really enjoyed this part of the curriculum, partly because the students did all the dirty work, but also because it was a way that we could leave our mark. I think they walked away with a sense that tree-planting was easy and effective.
Tonight we went out to eat for the first time at an Italian restaurant. It wasn’t exactly Italian food, but it was a chance to get some meat. It was pretty good. It’s crazy because I’ll be home exactly two weeks from today…everything has gone by so quickly.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
SAFARI
For sunset we took a break near a whole family of giraffes, it was so fun. We got out of the car to stretch our legs and take pictures. As it got darker, we had a spotter, Eddie, who moved a huge spotlight back and forth to try to see animals. Some were easy to see because their eyes reflected back like a cat’s, other animals they were just talented at catching. Seeing the leopard was a rarity. When we found it a lot of other cars from other safaris came to look too. Javis was good because he rode ahead in the direction the animal was going so we could get better pictures.
In the afternoon we drove to a textile market called Tribal Textiles. They sell amazing hand painted wall hangings, bedspreads, table cloths, anything textilish. We definitely spent too much time and money there, but the craftsmanship was amazing. Back at the campground we lounged around again. The relaxation time we spent was well worth it and well deserved…we are teaching straight through the end of our stay here until we revisit the lake.
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Homestay
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Ngulule
I also had to cook last night and my group decided to make veggie chile. It was more difficult than we expected because you can't get canned beans here. We had to soak them and they took forever to cook. Turned out to be an OK meal though. We haven't had a bad meal yet here and it's always a nice surprise to see what people make for dinner. Each group is limited to 4000 kwacha per dinner, the equivalent of $28 for 25 people. Our meals are vegetarian, but it's amazing to see how far kwacha can go here.
On the second day at the school there were a lot more rugrats and younger students who didn't want to go home. To keep them occupied and away from the classrooms I taught them "We Will Rock You" with a stomp stomp clap, but they had a hard time pronouncing the words. These kids will mimic literally anything. Even when we told them the Chichewa words for "home" and "goodbye," they would repeat them over and over. I guess our Chichewa isn't that good. Gina and I ended up sitting inside the Land Rover to read, and all the kids came up to the windows and watched our every move.
This school had a particularly abundant animal population...lots of goats, chickens, and dogs. The dogs remind me of some of the giant chihuahua-looking ones in Oaxaca. Apparently there is a term for these types of dogs - DWD, developing world dog. They are all very skinny. The highlight of our day though was feeding puppies some leftover nsima.
Tomorrow is our last day at the school, then when we get home we are going to pack for our homestay. We'll be staying for two nights. Apparently communication with the families is near impossible, so people don't bother. We stay with one other volunteer in each house. In the villages people go to bed when it gets dark and wake up to do work right when the sun comes up. Guess I'll have to adjust my sleep schedule again, it gets dark fairly early here. (Also since I won't have a computer/phone while we are there, happy birthday Daddy!)
In World Camp news, WC has planned their first reunion. It's going to be in September in Boone, and it's for all the volunteers from the past 7 years from Malawi, Honduras, and India. It'll be exciting to see everyone again!
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Lazy Sunday
Friday, July 6, 2007
Chiseka
Before entering the classroom we do some team building activities. One is called the circle sit where in a circle everyone faces to the side and we all try to sit on each other while balancing the circle. It can take a few tries but the goal is to get the students to communicate to make it work. Then we have a few games with a giant parachute. One of these games is called Lake Malawi, where we try to mimic the lake by shaking the parachute. Inside the classrooms, we did introductions. We asked the kids to say their name, age, and something that interests them. I’m not really sure if there are traditional Malawian or Chichewa names, but they seemed to vary with western names. There were two boys in my class named Gift (pronounced Geeft), a girl named Loveness, then a John and a Rebecca. The ages in the class varied from 11 to 18. The kids were really all shapes and sizes, but many did not look their age. Some of their typical interests are school, music, and football; they tend to repeat what is said before them. One of the boys in our class was hard of hearing. Some of the other boys helped him out but he certainly had no sign of hearing aids. Every class had to come up with a class name and song. We decided on “Kirk Range,” which I guess is a nearby mountain range? It sounded more like “Keeek Rage.” The kids came up with a song very quickly, saying something in Chichewa like “Kirk Range, strong team”.
What I noticed at first about this class was that they were very mature. They were great listeners and were very engaged throughout the lecture. All very smart and unique. The boys tended to stick with the boys, and all the girls sat in the front row. The classroom consisted of 4 open windows with concrete patterns in them and a blackboard, no chairs or desks. There were a few handmade posters on the wall. A lot of them depicted agricultural tools and carpenter tools. I wasn’t expecting a primary school like this to have a technical/agricultural emphasis, but I suppose it is suiting for the lifestyle here. Everyone sits on the floor, which was concrete. Most of the students introduced themselves in Chichewa, maybe one or two could do it in English. Sometimes outside the class the older kids would ask us something in English but they didn’t seem to comprehend anything from our answers.
What I wrote earlier about seeing traditional clothing is certainly not the case. All of these kids wear what look like hand me downs. A lot are full of holes and falling apart and dirty. Some of them have t-shirts from places in the US. All of the girls wear skirts below their knees and the boys tended to have shorts. All of the kids have shoes. A lot of them are flip flops or sandals. However, they do not enjoy wearing them. They prefer to go barefoot and it shows because their feet are incredibly dusty.
At the beginning of the class we handed out World Camp journals, which correspond with some of the activities we do. Our first topic is HIV/AIDS. A lot of the kids are familiar with the terms and what they stand for, but not much beyond that. We started with teaching the kids that you cannot tell if a person has HIV by looking at them; the only way to know is a blood test. Then we created an abstract character. With a poster we explained what t-cells are and how HIV destroys them. We tend to use the analogy that t-cells are like soldiers protecting the immune system. There are several interactive activities we do to communicate how HIV/AIDS affects the body. After this we talk about the ways in which you can contract HIV. A lot of times the kids will say that you can get it from sweat, saliva, or mosquitoes. They were familiar with sexual and blood to blood transmission, but no so much with mother to child. Then we discuss the three behaviors to protect against HIV: abstinence, monogamy, and covering up. In Chichewa these three things all start with Ku, so we call them the Ku Ku Kus.
After lunch comes the bananas. We do a full out banana condom demonstration. There are of course a lot of giggles, especially from the boys. But pretty much none of these students have ever seen a condom. The demonstration seemed to be successful. At the end of the demonstration we eat the bananas, to show that condoms are safe. One teacher at the school thought that lubrication could give you cancer. I think the curriculum we teach is a lot more effective than we realize.
After lunch we start to discuss deforestation. The main problem here is the typical Malawi definition for deforestation, which is always “cutting down trees carelessly.” World Camp wants to emphasize that cutting down trees is not careless; people have a need for trees for cooking, building, etc. We tell them that the key is replenishing the trees, either naturally or from humans. The kids were definitely the most interested in this section. They are familiar with erosion and drought and the other consequences of deforestation. They had not however, heard of global warming. One boy asked if it was hot in America, and we told him it was hotter and that deforestation is happening all over the world. I think the kids walked away with a good idea that cutting down trees has serious consequences. At the end we gathered in a large circle again for some relays before we left. The past World Camp volunteers said this was definitely one of the better schools they had been to, and overall the day was successful.
We leave the schools around 4. When we got back all I wanted to do was shower, I was covered in dust. We have bins and bins of materials to put away at the houses. After dinner we all sit in the living room for evaluations and discuss what went well during the day and what didn’t.
For my birthday, I was surprised with some incredible lemon squares, a candle to blow out, and happy birthday songs all day. They made it great!
The second day was Malawi independence day (the 6th), so not as many kids and teachers came to school. When we got there we got to spend some time with the rugrats. They started singing songs with us, and basically mimicked every move we made. It was kind of funny to teach them the chicken dance or some disco moves. They were just incredibly adorable, as you would expect. We repeated the morning games and songs, and did some new team building activities.
On day two, most of our day is focused on the topic of negotiating sex. For this we divide the girls and boys. Me and a partner, Maria (from UNC) were assigned a group of 15 girls, ranging from ages 11 to 16. We explain to them that our learning environment is completely confidential. Despite this, the girls were incredibly shy and reluctant to participate; it is a very uncomfortable topic to them. We start with the basics, like, the basic basics. Most children do not talk to their parents about sex, they usually get information from siblings or friends. We essentially went over the female anatomy and menstruation. It was amazing how much these girls did not know. The saddest part of this entire session was when we asked, whose choice is it to decide when to have sex? They all unanimously answered “the boy’s.” We explained to them that it is the women who deal with the consequences of sex, i.e. pregnancy and HIV, and that they have the power to say no. We talked about the ways to convincingly say no to sex with body language and had them do some skits based on what boys will say to them to convince them and how they would react. A lot of times money is involved in convincing girls to have sex. We also discussed the process of making decisions and asked them to think of some hardships and what they could do to overcome them. One example was not having enough money for school fees. Some suggestions for a solution were farming or starting a small business or getting a loan…so I think they have learned about microfinance. At the end we had a Q and A session where they wrote down anonymous questions in Chichewa. We gave each of them little yarn bracelets for them to remember our lecture by.
During lunch I decided to take a few pictures of the school, but instead I was bombarded by the rugrats asking me to take pictures of them, then they’d say what I’m guessing was “show us” in Chichewa and I’d turn the camera around to the LCD screen and show them, they were incredibly excited.
After lunch we returned to our first class and continued with the environment curriculum. We talked about population and its effect on deforestation. The point of this was basically to suggest family planning, which the kids were familiar with. The typical family size in Malawi is 8-12 kids…so we told them that more people require more resources. Then a fun hands-on activity: the solar oven. At orientation the volunteers were put into groups and tried to make a solar oven based on the curriculum’s directions; no one could do it. But it actually is very simple. It only takes a cardboard box, some reassembling, aluminum foil on the inside, and black paint on the outside. Apparently these solar ovens can heat food to over 100 degrees, but not quite to the point of boiling anything. We wanted to show the kids that firewood is not always needed for cooking. We are going to test them out on the third day.
Also on the third day, we have presentations at the end of camp. We tell all the kids to invite their parents, friends, and community members to come and see what they’ve learned. Each class has a different topic, and I assigned my class the topic of deforestation since they enjoyed it so much. At first it was difficult getting a group of 28 kids to compromise. But what surprised me most was how quickly they worked it out. Within 10, 15 minutes, they decided to do a skit and a song. After some rehearsal they showed us. All I can say is incredible. They absorbed the information so well and were able to communicate the important points across in the play. And the song was beautiful. They arranged it from scratch and wrote their own lyrics; it seriously sounded like a professional choir. I’m so excited to see how it will turn out tomorrow.
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Orientation
We passed a few groups of women doing laundry in the water and grinding clothes against rocks on the beach. They all greeted us very nicely and sometimes started singing and dancing.




